Signs of a Bad Trustee: How Abused Trust Beneficiaries Can Protect Their Inheritance

When you’re named as a beneficiary of a California Trust, the law gives you very specific rights. But when a bad trustee is in charge, those rights can be ignored, minimized, or outright violated. Many beneficiaries describe the experience the same way: confusing, isolating, and powerless.

A trustee is supposed to follow the terms of the Trust, act with absolute loyalty, and communicate honestly. When they don’t, beneficiaries pay the price.

Below are the major warning signs of trustee misconduct and what you can do to protect your inheritance.


1. Lack of Transparency: “I Can’t Get Any Information.”

A healthy Trust administration is transparent.
A bad trustee keeps beneficiaries in the dark.

Common red flags include:

  • Months go by with no updates

  • You don’t receive account statements or financial information

  • Requests for documents are ignored

  • The trustee refuses to explain decisions or timelines

California law requires trustees to keep beneficiaries “reasonably informed.” Silence is not just rude, it can be a breach of fiduciary duty.


2. Withholding or Delaying Distributions Without a Valid Reason

A trustee cannot hold your inheritance hostage.

If the Trust calls for an outright distribution, the trustee must distribute assets within a reasonable time. Abusive trustees often:

  • Delay distribution “until they feel comfortable”

  • Make up reasons for withholding money

  • Try to control how you spend your inheritance

  • Use delays to exert power or punish certain family members

These tactics are not allowed. The trustee must follow the Trust terms — not their personal preferences.


3. Favoritism, Self-Dealing, or Using Trust Property for Themselves

Bias is one of the clearest signs of trustee abuse.

You may notice:

  • One sibling getting special treatment

  • The trustee living in Trust property without paying rent

  • Trust assets being used for personal expenses

  • A sudden change in how assets are valued, invested, or maintained

Trustees have a legal duty of impartiality. They cannot treat beneficiaries unevenly or use Trust assets as if they own them.


4. Poor Asset Management or Allowing Property to Decline

A trustee must protect and preserve Trust property.

Warning signs include:

  • Letting real estate fall into disrepair

  • Failing to collect rent or enforce leases

  • Making risky or inappropriate investment decisions

  • Ignoring professional advice

  • Allowing illegal or unsafe activity on Trust property

Neglect can cost beneficiaries hundreds of thousands of dollars — and it can absolutely be grounds for trustee removal.


5. Stonewalling, Hostility, and Unprofessional Behavior

Some trustees become openly adversarial.

This can look like:

  • Refusing to respond

  • Rude or aggressive communication

  • Threatening beneficiaries

  • Acting as if beneficiaries “don’t deserve” information

Trustees are fiduciaries. Even if family tensions exist, they must remain professional and responsive. Hostility is a major red flag.


What You Can Do as an Abused Beneficiary

The good news: you are not powerless.

signs of a bad trustee

In California, beneficiaries can petition the probate court to:

  • Force the trustee to provide an accounting

  • Compel distribution of assets

  • Demand financial transparency and documentation

  • Recover misappropriated assets

  • Surcharge (financially penalize) a bad trustee

  • Remove the trustee and appoint someone new

A trustee who refuses to follow the rules can be held legally accountable, but action usually needs to be taken early to prevent further harm.


You Don’t Have to Face a Bad Trustee Alone

If you believe you’re dealing with an abusive or incompetent trustee, trust your instincts.
Most abused beneficiaries sense something is wrong long before they know the full extent.

Albertson & Davidson LLP represents abused trust beneficiaries across California.
We help clients force transparency, recover assets, and remove bad trustees for good.

If something feels off, reach out. Your inheritance shouldn’t depend on a trustee who refuses to do their job.

Stewart is a dedicated and accomplished attorney whose goal is to provide each client with exceptional representation and clear, effective resolutions to their legal challenges. With a career built on dynamic advocacy and deep care for his clients, he is committed to achieving just outcomes and securing the best possible results.